Self-Care Isn’t Always About You

Self-Care Isn’t Always About You

When we talk about self-care in mental health, we often picture the things we do for ourselves: taking a bath, going for a walk, setting boundaries, getting enough sleep, or making time for something we enjoy. And all of those things matter. But sometimes, self-care...
Asking For Help Isn’t Giving Up

Asking For Help Isn’t Giving Up

One of the most common things I hear as a therapist is, “I should be able to handle this on my own.” Whether someone is struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, financial stress, or simply feeling overwhelmed, many people believe asking for help is a...
Joy And Recovery

Joy And Recovery

Joy can feel surprisingly uncomfortable, especially for those in recovery. Researcher and author Brené Brown describes joy as one of the most vulnerable emotions we experience. To feel truly happy, peaceful, or connected means allowing ourselves to care deeply about...
When Birthdays Feel Emotionally Difficult

When Birthdays Feel Emotionally Difficult

Birthdays are often associated with celebration, but they can also bring up complex emotional responses that impact mental health. For many individuals, birthdays prompt reflection on aging, relationships, unmet expectations, grief, loneliness, or perceived life...
Quiet Endurance in Loud Times

Quiet Endurance in Loud Times

There is a kind of strength that rarely gets named.It doesn’t shout. It doesn’t posture. It doesn’t demand attention or applause.It simply persists. Quiet endurance is the ability to keep showing up—to your life, your values, your people—while the world feels...
Fueling 13.1 With One Word: “Can’t.”

Fueling 13.1 With One Word: “Can’t.”

When I was hit by a car, the physical recovery was one thing. The other recovery—the one I didn’t expect—came from being told, confidently and without question, that I probably wouldn’t run again. The surgeon said it in a tone many women know well: the tone that...